Ancient Chinese Birth Gender Chart

Ancient Chinese Birth Gender Chart

 

This is an ancient Chinese Chart used to predict the sex of your unborn child, reportedly with a 99% accuracy. The Chart was buried in a tomb near Beijing for 700 years. The original is in the Institute of Science in Beijing.

All you need is the month the child was conceived, and the age of the mother at the time of conception.

 

Cross reference age of mother at conception with month of conception

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First Birthday at McDonald's

 

Lychee’s first birthday celebration was held at McDonald! It’s an intimate party with our close friends and loveones.

 

 

Preparation for the party is not so tiresome unlike her christening preps but still I allot 3 months for it! See how OC I am? J

 

I dunno if Lychee would like a pixie-themed party but I love seeing her in colorful wings! I would also like to commend McDonald’s Santa Cruz staffs for accommodating us. We’ve made reservations for 100 guests.. We finalize the menu and opted not to get the meal packages. Food mixes includes chicken+spaghetti+burger+sundae and drinks – both  for adults and kids.

 

We also chose Grimace as our party mascot – mas appealing kasi siya sa mga kids!

 

 

 

THE INVITATION:

 

Right after the reservation, McDonald’s staff already gave us 30pcs of pixie-themed invitations.

I find it so common if I would just input basic details of the party on the invite so I personalized it!

 

 

  

 

Here’s what written on the invites:

 

            The garden fairies have gathered

            To celebrate a special day for our little fairy

 

            Fairies and pixies wear your fairy best.

            There will be enchanting fun and pixie dust for us to zest!

 

Every kids who received the invites got so excited specially when they saw their matching pixie character!

 

 

 

 

THE CAKE:

 

We bought the cake from Goldilocks. It’s very simple 16x16 cake. I just bought some trinkets like butterfies, flowers and leaves from national bookstore and attached it to mini sticks to add some colors on the cake. Also, my brother in-law gave us a musical flower candle as cake topper.

 

 

 

THE GIVE-AWAYS:

 

 

For give aways, gusto ko yung medyo unique.. so I ordered a customized mini stools from a friend. I just tell her all the details for the stools and tadaaa! It turned out so well! Thank you! Everyone loves it!

 

 

 

 

THE PARTY DRESS:

 

Yeap – I admit. It’s the same! She already wore this on her christening party but I thought why not use it again! Besides bagay naman sa theme diba ? J

 

 The wings naman, I bought it from a local store. I just put some crystals para mas makintab J

The crown headband – I purchased it from National Bookstore.

The Hello Kitty Shoes, I bought from SM DEpt Store.

 

 

 

 

THE PHOTOGRAPHER – PHOTOSHOOT:

 

 

 

 

 

 

I took the service of Artystafoto kids for Lychee’s photoshoot. Again, thank you geriel! J

It’s an early morning shoot.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

This photo was taken in Lumban, Laguna. Nice noh?

 

 

 

Everything turned out well as planned J

And as a bonus – my in-laws gave Lychee another birthday party at home! Yehey!

 

 

 

UNLIMITED Ube and Keso Ice Cream!

 

 

  

 

 

UNLIMITED COTTON CANDY

 

 

 

 

 

 

Chocolate Fountain and Cholate-Coated Mallows!

 

 

 

 

They also organized some party games and puppet show! It’s the best first birthday for Lychee!

 

 

Thank you everyone for your love and support!

Specially to Kuya Ron, Ate Gigi and Ruby.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

TKD Lesson

 

 

 

 

 

 

“ the idea is not to strike a kick but to make your opponent BELIEVE how much your kick HURTS. “

-      Mommeetimefulfills

 

 

 

Motherhood: Iya is Teething

I was starting to worry already because little Lychee is turning 10 months na but still “Toothless”!

His Kuyas were all concern as well about Lychee’s situation.

 

Pero mahirap pala cause when her tooth starts to erupt, she had 2 weeks of crankiness and fuzziness..

I started searching for some tips to help her. I also bought SansFluo Teething Gel to sooth her sore gums.

 

Saw this article..hope this will also help moms..

 

 

 

With regard to teething symptoms, she shares that they may be experienced weeks before the actual tooth breaks the surface of the gums. Excessive saliva production, irritability, and disrupted sleep can all be experienced. Babies may also experience having loose stools due to the amount of saliva they produce and ingest and sometimes, even low-grade fever can also occur for a day or two. She warns parents though that even if fever and loose stools may be symptoms of teething, these symptoms should not be taken lightly, and parents should inform their pediatricians of these symptoms especially if the fever is high, if it persists, or if diarrhea occurs.

To help babies with teething pain, Dr. Salazar suggests using products such as Solcoseryl dental adhesive paste, Xylogel or SansFluo Teething Gel, with, of course,prior approval from your pediatrician.

As parents, we  naturally want to give the best for our children and help them when they feel any discomfort.  Here are a couple tips parents can do.

1. Put on the pressure. Provide chew toys and teethers that can relieve the pain and discomfort of teething. Make sure though to keep these toys and teethers clean.
2. Soothe the discomfort with cold. Parents can give their children a chilled washcloth or teethers that have been cooled in the fridge or freezer. The cold temperature soothes the gums, and the pressure from chewing on these soothes teething discomforts. Mashed frozen fruit are also good alternatives.
3. Give lots of touch and hugs. Never underestimate the power of touch.  Gently rub and massage babies’ gums or jaw line and give lots of hugs and affection.

Teething is a part of growing up and all babies have to go through it. With a time, a few tips and tricks and lots of TLC, the growing pains of teething can be managed and soon be overcome.

* Dr. Junice Salazar is a member of the Philippine Dental Association and the International Association

 

Teething: How To Ease the Distress

 

How do I know if my baby is teething?

Your baby may sprout her first teeth with no problems at all, but it could be a long and painful process. She's going to need lots of cuddles!

If your baby's teething, you may notice the following:

• red and swollen gums
• red, flushed cheeks or face
• heavy drooling
• gum-rubbing, biting or sucking
• rubbing her ear on the same side as an erupting tooth
• sleepless at night and wakeful during the day
• not feeding as well
• irritable and unsettled (McIntyre and McIntyre 2002, NICE 2014, NHS 2014a)

Your baby may also develop a temperature or diarrhoea just before a tooth breaks through (McIntyre and McIntyre 2002). However, you should never assume that these symptoms are caused by teething. If you're worried, see your doctor (NICE 2014).

My baby has a rash on her chin from dribbling. How should I treat it?

Gently wipe the drool off your baby's chin as often as you can with a soft cotton cloth (NHS 2014b). Be careful not to rub her chin as it may be sore. You could also smooth a barrier cream, such as petroleum jelly, on her chin at bedtime and before you take her out and about. This may help protect her skin from further irritation (BNF for Children 2014).

Why does teething hurt so much?

Your baby's teeth started developing while she was in your womb (uterus), when tooth buds were formed in her gums. Now her teeth are pushing through her gums. This is what's causing them to be painful and perhaps swollen. It's the same kind of pain as when your wisdom teeth came through.

Pressure on your baby's teeth from chewing may relieve her pain. Nonetheless, your baby's gums will be particularly sensitive at this time. This is why she may turn away from your breast or a bottle when she's teething.

What are the best ways to soothe my baby's painful gums?

There are plenty of things you can try before resorting to pain relief products or teething gels. Giving your baby something cool to bite on can relieve the pressure and ease the pain. You could try the following:

• Rub a clean finger over your baby's sore gums to numb the pain temporarily (NICE 2014).
• Give your baby a teething ring (NICE 2014, NHS 2014b). Solid, silicone-based teething rings are better than liquid-filled products, which could leak and can't be sterilised. You could try putting the teething ring in the fridge for a while before giving it to your baby. Don't put it in the freezer, as this could hurt your baby's gums (NHS 2014b).
• You may like to offer your baby a dummy. Chewing on the teat may help your baby to soothe herself (McIntyre and McIntyre 2002).

If your baby is more than six months old, you could also let your baby chew on cool, soft foods such as banana and cucumber (NICE 2014). Don't use hard foods though, as they could break into pieces that could potentially choke your baby.

Never tie anything around your baby's neck for ease of use, as it puts her in danger of strangling herself. This includes teething rings and dummies.

You could also try chilled water in a bottle or, if she prefers, a feeding cup. If she's old enough for solid foods, try offering her cold fruit puree or plain yoghurt. There will be times when your baby will reject all of these and want nothing more than a cuddle.

Should I use teething gels or alternative remedies?

Teething gels usually contain a local anaesthetic and an antiseptic, which work together to ease pain and prevent infection. A small amount rubbed on to the sore gum with a clean finger or cotton wool pad has a brief numbing effect.

Teething gels quickly wear off and are often washed away by your baby's saliva. If you opt for one, make sure you use one that is sugar-free and specifically made for babies. Always make sure you follow the instructions on the pack (NICE 2014). Don't be tempted to apply more than the instructions suggest. If your baby's younger than four months, check with your doctor before using teething gels or other remedies (NHS 2014b).

Many pharmacies stock homeopathic teething granules or powders. These come in small sachets that you pour into your baby's mouth or mix with cooled, boiled water to give to your baby as a drink.

There's no evidence that these remedies work (Markman 2009, PRODIGY 2009), but some mums swear by them. Check that the brand you are buying is sugar-free. Sugar is a cause of tooth decay, so you don't want to be covering your baby's emerging tooth buds in sugar.

Some mums find that amber necklaces or bracelets can help to relieve teething pain. The theory is that a tiny amount of oil is released on to your baby’s skin when they are worn. This oil is thought to ease discomfort.

Again, there is no medical evidence to back up these claims. Wearing an amber necklace or bracelet also carries the risk of strangling or choking if the jewellery gets caught on something.

If you do use an amber necklace or bracelet, remember that they shouldn’t be sucked or chewed on, as this can cause choking if a bead is accidentally swallowed (Markman 2009).

Can I give my baby infant paracetamol?

Yes, you can give your baby infant paracetamol or infant ibuprofen (NHS 2013). Don't give both together unless advised by a doctor (NHS 2014c). Check the dosage information on the packet or ask your doctor or pharmacist if you're unsure how much to give your baby.

It's also worth checking whether there's something else is upsetting your baby before giving her medication. Ear infections can be mistaken for teething (NICE 2014). If your baby seems unwell and upset, or has a fever, take her to the doctor to check what the problem is.

How long will teething last?

There's no set date when your baby's first tooth will arrive. Most babies start at around six months, but it can happen at any time, from before birth to after her first birthday (NHS 2014a). Teething could carry on for a year or more. Your little one should have all her milk teeth by the time she's two-and-a-half years old.

You also won't know how long it will take for a tooth to push through that little gum. Your baby may be troubled for just a few days before a tooth emerges. But she could also show all the symptoms of teething for months with nothing to show for it.

The good news is that your baby's first few teeth will probably be the worst. Her next few teeth may come through more easily.

Your baby may go through another tough time when she's about a year old and her molars come through (NHS 2014a). Molars are the teeth at the back of her mouth, and they're the largest, so may cause her the most trouble when they appear. But until then you'll both have time to recover from this difficult stage.

If you think your little one may be pushing out her first tooth, check out our pictures of teething symptoms, or watch a quick video to get even more tips on easing the distress of teething.

Last reviewed: September 2014

http://www.babycentre.co.uk/a567379/teething-how-to-ease-the-distress#ixzz3fB7mwwAl

DIY GOLD and PINK Christening

We had our daughter baptized about 2 months ago and I would like to share with you guys about a simple do-it-yourself christening preparation I made for our little one.

We only had a month of preparation for baby Lychee’s Christening, this includes checking online for the venue, catering services, cake supplier, decors and souvenirs. Whew!  

It’s not naman walang plano to baptized – it’s just that were not nagmamadali to baptized Lychee. Pero the moment we realized it – Hala! Anong petsa na! J

CONCEPT:   AN INTIMATE PINK AND GOLD THEMED CHRISTENING

I wanted to have an intimate and simple event. Actually the idea is for everyone to just enjoy the celebration. That’s why we decided to held in in a pavilion/hotel and hire a caterer. It’s for all our family and close friends.

Hubby and I were very hands-on with this event. We made sure that every detail was made with TLC.

I chose a pink and gold motiff – not too girly.

CHURCH: IMMACULATE CONCEPTION CATHOLIC CHURCH in Santa Cruz, Laguna

The first thing that I do is to make a reservation at Immaculate Conception Catholic Church in Santa Cruz, Laguna for the date of the Christening.

I learned that they only held Baptism on Saturdays and Sundays only.

          Baptism Fee               P300.00

        Sponsors           P20 / each

INVITATION: Layout by Me - Approved and Printed by Daddy

For the invitation, I think I made 6 layouts – and daddy approved just one (still with revisions!).

                  Invitation/ Special Paper   P75 (10pcs A4)

                Invitation/Envelope           P55 (bought at Pandayan Bookstore)

RECEPTION VENUE: ASIABLOOMS PAVILION in Santa Cruz, Laguna

CATERER:    ASIABLOOMS

The place is good for 150-230persons. The place is very spacious because we only had 100guests; parking is also good and it’s just along the national road.

The package we had is good for 100guests.

Food:

Chicken:     Pastel

Pork:           Caldereta

Fish:            Sweet & Sour

Noodle:       Canton

Vegetables: Lumpiang Sariwa

Gelatin with Fruits

Iced Tea

Free Venue includes :

  Tables w/ cloth, chairs w/ seatcover, dining utensils, food warmers,

  Celebrant, Parents & Presidential table, stage setting,

  buffet table with skirting, gift table, cake table, sound system

  Fully airconditioned venue.

STAGE SET-UP and BALLOON DECORATIONS – GLACY’s BALLOONS

My friend Glacy, set-up an awesome stage for the event. nice, noh? She also decorated balloons centerpieces on each tables. I am so satisfied with her creations. So proud of you Glaze!

PHOTOGRAPHY: ARTYSTAFOTO KIDS (Geriel Ramos)

We hire a professional photographer for Lychee’s Christening. Since everyone in the family will be participating in the christening rites, it is very convenient to have someone who will take pictures. And besides it’s best for everyone to just smile on the camera J It’s really sulit to have hire a photographer.

Artystafoto kids also provides us with free pre-christening photoshoot at Residencia Del Riyo in Pagsanjan Laguna J Thanks Geriel!

SOUVENIRS: PERSONALIZED MINI JARS WITH COLORED JUMBO BUBBLE GUMS

This is a last minute decision. We intend to not have souvenirs because were time constraint already. Pero a day before the event, I feel so itchy to make souvenirs! Parang the event and all the preparation would not be fully complete without having souvenirs. So here it is!

I bought 50 mini jars at SM Calamba (P19.75 each), colored jumbo bubble gums cost  P120 per pack (120pcs per pack). I bought legal size sticker paper, make layouts and print! Tadaaa! Hubby’s nieces helped me with this project.

DIY CHRISTENING CANDLES

I bought 1 pack of candles (20pcs) at SM-Calamba for P64.  I just wrapped the 1/3 of the candle with pink paper string which I bought at Pandayan Bookstore for only P24.

CHRISTENING DRESS:

I really want a long white baptismal dress for my baby – the luck was just on my side when I bought this dress for only P650 (50% off!)at SM-Calamba.

I bought a pair of white socks with tiny pink ribbon for P120 at SM-Calamba.

This cute reception dress was given by Ninang Rina J (picture: iya with tita gigi)

CAKE (GOLDILOCKS BAKESHOP)

The first plan is to have a christening fondant cake by The Little Cake Shop at Pila Laguna it so happened that fondant cake pala takes 2-4 weeks to make.

So we go to the ever reliable Goldilocks, bought this for P1,580.

This cake includes 30pcs chocolate lollipops! Sulit J

Overall naman, I believe that the party was a success! Almost all our invited guests attended the event.

Also, I am grateful to all our relatives and friends for joining this celebration.